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Brian Reindel 👾⚔️'s avatar

I don't know that I've ever made any new years resolutions. For those things that are most important or that I want to focus on, I take small, intentional steps toward. For example, I don't ever say I want to lose weight. I say Im going to do 15-30 minutes of an activity daily. Doesn't really matter what so long as I establish a pattern. For writing a novel, I'm starting with some chapter outlines, maybe writing some scenes, and then eventually pages, but I'm not going to "write a novel" this year until I look back and discovered I've written a novel 😉

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Mark M.'s avatar

Looking at the completion instead of the steps to get there is a -very- good idea. That way, the finish line is always first and foremost in your mind. I think I will steal...er...borrow that idea! :)

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Brian Reindel 👾⚔️'s avatar

Steal away, Mark! Whatever works 😁

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Holly Rabalais's avatar

No resolutions for me either, Mark, and that’s good...because I’m sure I would have broken all of the by now!

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Mark M.'s avatar

Very sensible and I'm right there with you! The recommendation to have wider reaching goals is much better, imo

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Matthew Murray's avatar

I don't think I've ever made any resolutions.

Per your list:

I am supposed to walk at least 20 minutes a day. I don't have time to do that at home but I do the equivalent at work. I plan to try to read some books this year. Several books have been mentioned on people's substacks and I have a large list already.

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Mark M.'s avatar

Yeah, it's tough trying to find the time to get some exercise in, for sure. Best of luck with your goals!

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Mark M.'s avatar

I like it, Terry!

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Rebecca Holden's avatar

Great post, Mark - an excellent list of intentions in a fabulous notebook!

I'm allergic to resolutions, so in answer to your question let me hijack some wise words by Winston Churchill and tell you that I'm going to just 'keep b*gg*ring on'. That'll do me for 2023!

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Mark M.'s avatar

Thanks Rebecca!

I'd say Churchill nailed it and it's some great advice to follow :)

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Rebecca Holden's avatar

😊

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Ms. Writer's avatar

My post about the resolutions I made this year comes out Tuesday and talks about what I have (and haven't accomplished) in the first month. I think the important thing is to have some goals and keep working at them even if you falter some days. Good luck with yours!

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Mark M.'s avatar

I totally agree. It's definitely a marathon and not a sprint. It's a lot of work and thanks, wishing you the best with yours, as well!

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Brad Kyle's avatar

Well, Mark, as an old record guy (and an old-record guy), I've always leaned on "New Year's Revolutions," trying to set goals for which (and how many) records I might obtain in an upcoming year!💿I once, though, beset myself with finally discovering how many grooves might be implanted on any given slab o' vinyl.

So, after spending the better part of a week counting them on one album, I finally realized each one has just ONE groove, lest the tonearm be rendered otherwise crippled in making its eventual rendezvous with the label! So, now you know how I spent LAST week!😁

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Mark M.'s avatar

Nothing wrong with that and hoping you can stay in the "groove" all year long :D

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Bryan Padrick's avatar

No resolutions - just a few goals. None of which have so far disappeared, but none of which are exactly being met, either. I like the idea of the New Year rebirth, but the reality is that after the celebration the regular predictability of life just ambles on ....

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Mark M.'s avatar

Very true, but I always try to have hope! :)

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